There Are Just Two Types Of Women In The World

[Updated from the archives.]


There are two types of women in this world: those I know and those I don’t.

Women I don’t know

In 2012 The Independent ran an article on the conditions women face around the world. Some of the news is horrible, of course, but some is startlingly upbeat.

Rwanda's Parliament Building (Wikimedia)

Rwanda’s Parliament Building

The best place to be a woman in national politics is not the UK or the US, but Rwanda. Women hold 45 out of 80 seats in the Rwandan Parliament, while in the US there are only 95 women serving in the House and Senate (out of 535 members total in the two houses) and the UK Parliament is hardly better with only 21% women.

So Africa is a surprisingly good place to be a woman, right? Not elsewhere on the continent. For example, more women die in childbirth in South Sudan than anywhere else, a staggering 1 in 7 according to Médecins Sans Frontières. Contrast that with Greece, which The Independent labeled the best country for giving birth with only 1 death in 31,800 births.

For making a living, Norway and Sweden have the highest wages for women compared to men (about even) while Saudi Arabia ranks lowest where women make 20% of men’s average earnings. It’s not all bad in the Middle East, though. The highest ratio of women participating in higher education worldwide is in Qatar, where women outnumber men 6 to 1 in post-secondary schools. The lowest ratio of women to men is in Chad, where there are three times as many men as women in higher education.

A woman I do know

I’d like to think that my daughter is irrepressible, and that as she desires to follow God and use the talents he’s given her she will not be swayed by the world’s mores and judgments. But I know that the hopes and plans of even the strongest people, women and men alike, can be crushed by the words and actions of others. And I know that my strong, smart daughter is no exception.

South African kids playing with our Daughter and her co-leader Shun  (More on her ministry)

South African kids playing with our daughter and her co-leader Shun
(More on her ministry)

This wonderful young woman (I practically gag at being forced to face the fact that my wonderful girl is now a wonderful woman) has plans, plans that she hopes to honor God with. She just graduated from university and is preparing to leave for a year to serve in a developing nation where she will reach out to women who are not only underserved but oppressed by their culture. This is a logical next step in her walk with God, following summers of leading teams to South Africa and serving on teams in the Middle East and eastern Europe, dating back to her Junior year of High School.

What God says, and what we can do

So have I successfully brought the two types of women together – women I do know and women I don’t – through my daughter’s ambitions and the world’s needs? I think so, but perhaps in a way that you may not expect.

Early in his ministry, Jesus summed up his purpose on earth:

“The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to set the oppressed free, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.” (Luke 4:18-19.)

That’s freedom for me and you and my daughter and the pregnant mothers in South Sudan, isn’t it?

Of course, Jesus was talking ultimately about spiritual freedom. But he also backed this up with physical manifestations of this freedom. In fact, Jesus himself identified how people could be assured that he was the promised Messiah. “The blind receive sight, the lame walk, those who have leprosy are cleansed, the deaf hear, the dead are raised, and the good news is proclaimed to the poor.” (Matthew 11:5.) Then he backed this talk with action. (Mark 5:25-35.)

Make no mistake: the way things are around the world, it’s men who are in a position to do a lot more for women than they’re doing right now. Yet how do we carry this out for women we know and for women we don’t?

I hate to sound faddish or cliché, but a lot of it has to do with knowledge and empowerment.

1)      Get informed. Stay open to learning about what is happening in the world just as you want to know what’s happening in your own family. Seek out and read articles like the one linked at the top of this post. Pray for opportunities to help and find a way to act on them, whether it means sending money, writing to Congress, or anything else God puts on your heart.

2)      Take advantage of the opportunities God gives you with the people around you. Does your sister or girlfriend or wife or daughter or mother need something you can give? Give it. Does the harried mother in the checkout line behind you need to get through before you so she can load her groceries and her children in the car and get home? Offer a smile and a kind word, and let her go ahead of you even if you are only buying a quart of milk and a candy bar.

3)      Fill in your own blanks here. You know what you can do, and you probably already know someone you can do it for.

A job worth doing

But why is supporting women so important? As much as I’d like to say it’s because young women with as much promise as my daughter deserve to be supported and empowered, that’s not the real reason. Neither is it because there are women around the world who face tragedy daily, hourly, even by the minute.

No. It’s because doing good to others – those within God’s kingdom and those without – is a calling we are all told to follow (Galatians 6:10), because all of us are made in God’s image. (Genesis 1:27.)

So I’ll pose the question again: Why is it important to support women?

Because women are made in the image of God, and that’s reason enough for me.


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11 Responses to There Are Just Two Types Of Women In The World

  1. janehinrichs says:

    Tim, Thanks for reposting this. It is very good. I love the picture of your daughter too. It can be overwhelming to read and see via media the plight of some women around the world. But as you mentioned there are really good things going on too.

  2. Tim, good article brother. And even after the good writing on the two groups of women, I liked the simple answer at the end: “Because women are made in the image of God, and that’s good enough for me.”

    • Tim says:

      That’s really the bottom line, and I hope it comes across as showing that all women are really in just one category and they are in it with all men too: we are all made in the image of God.

  3. Aimee Byrd says:

    This is such a great post. And yes, that last line says it all! Love that picture of your daughter: shows us beauty inside and out.

    • Tim says:

      I am glad this re-post is resonating with people, Aimee, and especially someone like you who is raising up some beautiful-inside-and-out children of her own.

  4. Jeannie says:

    Thanks for re-posting this today, Tim, and for being an encourager. (The nice thing about encouragement is that it’s so encouraging — I forget who I heard say that…)

  5. Ruth says:

    Made in God’s image, not magazine, film, news media or earthly man. Whew! The only image I have to live up to, and that is with His help, is Christ crucified and risen!
    It’s nice to see true beauty such as your daughter, healthy, smiling, loving and as a bonus, pretty to boot. 🙂 Her outer expresses her inner! A smile from a contented person is the most heart- lifting thing.
    Love seeing a smile on anyone when they realise they are loved and cared for, no wonder I love to teach, been back for three days and ecstatic about it. Christian schools so far, state school later on for CRT work.
    Great post and update, such a proud dad you are!

  6. Jennifer H says:

    Message received, thanks!

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