You’re Not Letting Your Mistakes Define You, Are You?

[From the archives.]


“To worship an idol involves calling something holy when it is not holy. Remember, only God can consecrate. … When a human being tries to consecrate what God has never consecrated, it is not a genuine act of consecration. It is an act of desecration. It is an act of idolatry.”

R.C. Sproul, The Holiness of God, ch. 3

I remember vividly some of the justifications and rationalizing that my friends and I used to go through. No matter what we were talking about, if there was some doubt about it fitting in with God’s will it was common to hear something like, “It must be all right, because it feels so right. We’ll pray and ask God to let us know if we should stop, but until he does then it’s OK to keep going.” You can imagine how handy this became!

Getting a little physical with a boyfriend or girlfriend? Just pray for God to tell you to stop if he thinks you’ve crossed a line.

Drinking a lot when out with friends? Just pray for God to tell you to stop if he thinks you’ve crossed a line.

Planning on calling in sick at work because two tickets to a great concert just popped up? Just pray for God to tell you to stop if he thinks you’ve crossed a line.

And until God tells you different, you can go right ahead with those plans, right? Yet I know these prayers are lame attempts to hide my plans from God, not bring them to him for guidance.

Sadly, this isn’t just confined to my past. I still find myself rationalizing away my decision-making processes. I am guilty of trying to consecrate my own desires, those ideas that I come up with of what I think is right, those priorities that I end up making into my own idols. Because here’s what the Bible calls idolatry:

“… your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.” (Colossians 3:5.)

These are the mistakes I make, I admit it, but I am so glad to be able to say that my mistakes do not define who I am.

Defined By Christ

“You are more than the choices that you’ve made You are more than the sum of your past mistakes You are more than the problems you create You’ve been remade”

Tenth Avenue North, You Are More

The Bible defines us like this:

“… you have taken off your old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator. Here there is no Gentile or Jew, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave or free, but Christ is all, and is in all.” (Colossians 3:9-11.)

It’s pointed out here as well:

“There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” (Galatians 3:28.)

What does it mean, then, to be defined not by where we were born or our economic status or our sex? It means that we are defined by who Jesus is because “Christ is all, and is in all” and we “are all one in Christ Jesus.”

You Can’t Get Closer Than “In”

Our hope of glory – which actually happens to be the present reality that we are right and righteous with God – is all because Christ is in us and we are in Christ. You can rest on this truth for eternity, that God has given his people:

“… glorious riches … which is Christ in you, the hope of glory.”  (Colossians 1:27.)

Seriously, how can it get better than that? Jesus is in you and you are in him and this relationship is God’s richness in your life. And yet I still create idols, I still place things before God, I still try to consecrate what he has not consecrated. Why? It’s like Paul said:

“For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing. Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it.  So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me.” (Romans 7:18-21.)

If Paul hadn’t licked it by then, there’s no reason for me to think that I should be able to master sin. But that doesn’t mean that sin has mastered me. In fact, I take heart that it hasn’t:

“Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you free from the law of sin and death.” (Romans 8:1-2.)

Freedom from sin’s laws means freedom from sin’s mastery over our lives. That’s what life in Jesus does. God never condemns a single one his people, the people who have life in Jesus. God always loves his own.

“Once you were alienated from God and were enemies in your minds because of your evil behavior. But now he has reconciled you by Christ’s physical body through death to present you holy in his sight, without blemish and free from accusation … .”  (Colossians 1:21-22.)

From God’s point of view (and admit it, his is the only point of view that counts) you are holy, without blemish and eternally free from accusation. It’s as simple as that.

Don’t you dare let anyone tell you different.


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6 Responses to You’re Not Letting Your Mistakes Define You, Are You?

  1. Amen! Amen! Amen! Tim love this line
    “These are the mistakes I make, I admit it, but I am so glad to be able to say that my mistakes do not define who I am.”

    For in truth we always will be the ones Peter spoke of in 2 Peter 1:8-9 for we daily fail and in fact are failures! We then rather then resting in grace present emperical evidence in the form of “You don’t know how far I have come” or “You don’t know what I was like” or “What I am doing” and other things we say that justify ourselves to others and ourselves. Rather than accepting as believers we need the gospel of grace now more than we did when we were not.

    Love this as well “You Can’t Get Closer Than “In”” Yet we too often take a low view of the law making lists of those things we think make us more obedient, more holy, more faithful to sustain (as a discussion I had the other day with someone said to me) to maintain our identity. Rather than realizing we cannot maintain it nor do we need to, for HE does.

    Great post Tim Thanks For blessing me this morning!

    • Tim says:

      Pat, I really appreciate your point on trying to rely on empiricism on justifying ourselves to others. Why do we keep trying to improve on Jesus’ justification?!

      • Tim I think the main reason especially here is our western culture is the no free ride, pull yourself up by your bootstraps kinda what you wrote on yesterday with the poem footprints. The other issue is our inability to handle that we are failures. Tim Ihave seen blog posts that left me banging my head on the table with statments like “Holiness leads to assurance!”

        We are in deep trouble if our growing in holiness is what our eternal security is based on. Know I actually think your post yesterday and this one are very specifically connected not sure that was on purpose, if it was good plan. Got a post coming out tomorrow on our identity will send you a link hope you will read it!

        • Tim says:

          Good points. The two posts weren’t designed to go together, at least not by me! Looking forward to that link, although my internet access is off and on while I’m out of town for a few days.

  2. Planting Potatoes says:

    very good read Tim….your words convict me for sure! It occurs to me that when we reationalize, we already know (or should know) that the thing we want will not be in line with God…so why do ask in the first place..? I remember my grandmother telling me more than once….”don’t bother asking, you already know what my answer will be…”

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